Don't Judge A Book By Its Cover

I think its not wrong to judge other people. Although many people in today's society feel that judging other people is wrong and it gives false impressions of people to oneself and thus not being fair. But I personally feel that there is nothing wrong in judging as it is only human nature to do so. But the way one judge others plays the crucial factor. Whether or not judging is fair or right or wrong, how you do it is the key.

If you judge someone else based on what other people tell you about him/her, hearsays and rumours that you heard from an unknown source, I feel that is wrong. You do not even have prove of what has happened, probably that person has a reason for doing so, maybe he or she is forced to do it. There are so many what ifs and so many unknown possibilities that may occur. Point is, you did not experience it first hand.

Judging someone based on personal experience or account will probably be more justifiable. At least for the fact that you've seen or experienced first hand what that person is like, the reason he or she does things, judging others from this way could probably be more fair.

I do not mean judging someone else is always negative. You can judge someone to be a good person, someone to be genuinely nice and sincere. I realised this only recently. And whenever someone tells me about someone else, I choose to see it for myself to believe it.

It will be nice if you can judge someone more fairly.

I'm not dictating you on how you should make decisions.

Just hope that you can be more fair.